The condom is the only tool that protects from both the diseases, sexually transmitted (including AIDS) and unwanted pregnancy. But although in the world annually are used between 6 and 9 billion condoms around the thin latex rubber still exist serious delusions. So before otdadesh of feelings is to be prepared.
Speak it out loud!
How to ask? I would certainly consider myself a full idiot... Isn't it better to keep it shut...." - similar thoughts are bothering every girl and boy before the first intimate meeting. Forget it! Care for long contraception is no longer considered a lack of spontaneity and romance. Yes - to set a condition of protective equipment, means that you have mature, responsible and modern thinking. Means that one cares not only for his but for partner's safety as well. So speak out your requirements right - "Do you have a condom or to use mine?". Do not agree on the "just this time let us be free ..." - do you really believe you deserve the consequences?
Take care of proper use!
Rubber that is placed on the penis, prevents the entry of semen in the vagina and so on, unwanted pregnancy and prevents sexually-transmitted diseases. Security is about 98%, but only if the use is correct. There are several simple rules:
- Check the expiry date;
- Open the package carefully away from sharp objects;
- Make sure keep condom correctly - should turn on the outside.
- Put condom in erected penis. BEFORE any contact between sexual organs;
- when you're done hold it tightly. Use tissue to avoid possible transmission of infections;
- Put the used condom in the bag and discard. Remember that the condom is disposable!
Be prepared for any situation!
Maybe you believe that tonight you will not be need protective equipment but it is better to reinsurance rather than risk the most romantic moment by running to the pharmacy. So always be prepared and carry a condom. This applies to both sexes. Belief that condoms are purchased by men, is outdated and wrong. Contraception affects both of you! And another thing: even when using another method of preventing unwanted pregnancy as a contraceptive tablets during sex with a casual partner is required to use a condom. Only this way can prevent HIV or other infectious disease.
Delete outdated deceptions!
Have sex with a condom kills the whole fun - fortunately this story is absolutely false. Modern condoms are made of very thin, flexible yet strong material that allows preservation of the sensations. Furthermore - depending on your personal preferences and needs, you can pick a condom with a different edge, color and even taste. This not only will prevent and even improve sexual experience. Remember that placing the condom itself may also become part of the game and love to make it so much more exciting. And another plus - the use of a condom helps to delay the act - a serious advantage in the first sexual intercourse.
And if the condom tears apart?
During the sexual act was the condom slip off, tear up or they simply lost their mind and have decided to have sex without a condom? What now? If the fear of unwanted pregnancy is rising, there is good news. There are so-called emergency contraceptive pills to be taken until 72 hours after sex and prevent pregnancy. But they can not protect you from HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases. So after such a contact, you'd better visit the doctor . .. and remember - never have sex without a condom!