Attitudes towards virginity at all times, it was different. In the history of mankind have a culture that gave her great and little social value. In our time, related to the virginity of the majority of people differently: some consider it a symbol of chastity, while for others - a symbol of "blue stockings". These two terms - complete nonsense. Now virginity is only the absence of sexual relations. Attitudes toward sexuality in our time easier. Now sex is more serve out, the withdrawal of sexual, emotional and mental stress.

Whatever the age, experience of girls, even if it is no longer a virgin, saying "no" - her right. It is always behind it, even if it allows a guy to kiss. But if the girl is still in the very early decided to stay at the level of Platonic relationship with his friend, and while it hints at sex, it should warn his friend in advance.

Some of the girls involved in love only in order to keep carrying a boy or his tie, but to do so - is senseless such a way not to be, his actions - short-term. Some can not choose who is single. They come into close relations with several guys at once. In general, any abnormality in it is not, but this may be due to an inferiority complex or self-doubt.

Television, movies, tabloids novels inspire that passion lasts forever, and certainly if you have found each other, then spend the rest of their lives together. Alas, this is not the case. Passion sooner or later runs, so sexual relations should be supplemented by other emotions. This respect, caring, tenderness, understanding - all the feelings, which are the love.
If she really believes that it is ripe and ready to engage in intimate relationships, then you need to think first and foremost on security. First, no alcohol, ostensibly to relax, and secondly, to prepare a suitable location, so that no one in charge is not prevented, and thirdly, to ensure the availability of contraceptives, a condom. These issues should be discussed openly.

About 70% of adolescents who are active sexual life, do not have any safety facilities. They very often you can hear this excuse: We do not often do. Some believe that early sexual experimentation are safe. In fact, approximately 200 thousand women become pregnant in the first four weeks and nearly 500 thousand during the first half of sexually active life.
Other teens do not use any means of pressure, considering that this is supposedly destroying the charm of the meeting.

Certainly, the need to use relief funds are destroying some charm, suffer because you can destroy all life. Defloration completely harmless not before 16-17 years. Prior to that time are encouraged to dispense love (by the way, petting - a good way to learn each other). This is justified yet because before that age for most girls did not include grease, moisturizing the vagina. First time did better use of the special condoms lubricated with abundant.

Preliminary love before the first sexual act must be gentle, imbued with love.

Choosing the correct position is also important to reduce the pain to a minimum in the first sexual contact. She must lie on his back, bending his legs at the knees and knees to your chest. This will ensure the widest opening of an entrance into the vagina.

In this posture hymen maximum tension at the entrance of the vagina, thereby facilitating its fast break. The young person may be well advised to kneel between feet partner, in keeping with her hands over the thighs. In this position he will be able to control the situation and not act blindly. In the first sexual contact with little girls can bleed. But it is defloration and without bleeding. After defloration sex should be continued only after 2-3 weeks after all live.

And now, the first sexual experience girls were a glass of champagne. And again. Very good when the guy already had sexual experience. This will ensure the girl guarantee that everything will be fine. Inexperienced same partner may cause frigidity in the future.