On this page you will find a lot of useful information on how to behave with women that they like us, as they understand the mood to win the trust and much more. All sections are drawn from the book Odette Bozzo "As a lure women."
Gold DO
Sometimes the net rencounter us with these women, whose beauty simply dazzles. Such cases are rare, and we must accept them as treasure, which we found by accident. Some shy, inexperienced or lack the most basic instincts, men always miss such chances. Here are some examples of such cases:
1 you're running late for work. Suddenly, in the hallway heard the noise. You look with curiosity and ... O wonder! Before you have a very beautiful Cynthia, which in this evening also left late. You are one ... What do you Take, sheepishly whether "good evening" and return to their work or kindly offered to make dinner together?
2 You are a guest. Among the guests you see a young woman who attracts your attention. You think you know her vaguely. Maybe this is your friend or neighbor school-mate? Did you come to it, saying only "a pleasant evening, is not it?" or tell her how you glad you met her and invite her to a restaurant to leave the dull party together.
3 you have a long sit at the dinner with a doctor when he was secretary succinctly states that the doctor led to the urgent advice and that he delayed. At this point, appears very sylph and said that it had previously determined time. What would your reaction? Perhaps thinking to himself that "this CUTIES will have to wait too long, continuing to read the old magazine, or offer a very nice lady kindly to drink a cup of coffee together after explain that the doctor delayed.
4 You are in the plane. Next to you sits good girl. How will you keep yourself? Offer Is it your headphones. Looking back it is a wonderful creation of nature? Ask whether it whether it is movie stars? Does it, that you are afraid of planes and ask what the title of the book, which rests on her lap? Try to understand the same whether you have your tastes? The most important thing is to talk. Say anything, just do not keep silent. At your disposal five hours of flight, which gives you a wonderful opportunity to win her heart, or at least her friendship. Depends on you not to miss this opportunity.
After all, "gold" chances are not so often. So it failed to do so vigorously and enthusiastically, you can only gain from this, and if can not, at least nothing to lose.
accident date
Perhaps, it may happen that any Venus accidentally find oneself in your arms for the simple reason that she broke down, but such cases are very rare, so you should not rely on them too. We advise you to take advantage of the likely normal situations faced by every day and to be able to instantly capture. All that this should be an affront to your intelligence and ability to take the initiative:
1 You are in the elevator with an attractive woman. Depending on the number of floors you have a few seconds or minutes. Start with the following phrase: "We are raising or fall?" If her coat, and you clothed only in costume, you could ask her what the temperature outside. She has a book in hand, ask that it reads. The time available is very limited, which is why your questions should enable the short answer - yes or no. " Continue to keep the ball rolling, even after your questions answered and after the elevator stopped. If you stumble a sudden inspiration, quickly following phrase: "I hope to see you again." In order to have time to get the phone number if you want to get off on the floor, where the girl, or follow her. There is no rule that would oblige you to withdraw from the elevator before it.
2 If you can not navigate in unfamiliar place, never rush to ask about right if you address something old or pointsman, and ask for help to any girl. Many of them would be happy playing the role of guardian angel. Try folow as much information as possible on their own, starting a conversation like this: "You seem very familiar with this quarter will probably live near here?" If it goes in the same direction, it may hold you, but if not hint at it, why not invite her this? If you liked her, she secretly would expect this and will deviate from the route, which was that did not stop this unexpected familiarity. But even if nothing like this happens, there is nothing wrong with that, to force the girl to think that hard for you to find the way. Do not forget the following: the more you pretend that you difficult to navigate in the area, the more likely that it will offer you their assistance.
3, you will be meeting with colleagues from other firms in which many women. Why would you not, I twist to a meeting before the appointed time, to be able to talk to any officer or secretary, which offers coffee? At the reception, you can see at least a good few girls who constantly moving hither and thither. There is nothing easier as the tie conversation with one of them, asking for a moment pencil or asking where you can use the phone.
It is not how many such possibilities gives you the accident, and what benefits you can derive from them.
Be very polite and gallant
In the past, in order to know the woman, knights tried to pull them out of predicament. Nowadays, it is equally important. Regardless of the fact that in this era there were feminist movement, expression of gallantry led the women's heart beat stronger. This is a continuing sense of feminine! Even the smallest gestures in this regard are seen as a confirmation of your interest and respect for her.
Make the service of women in a difficult position, this investment that helps you gain a magnificent way to subjugate it to its will. Regardless of that strong feminists, these women prefer a man who can master any situation. Very often the gallantry of men payback old mens. Here's how you can do with beauty, which makes your heart beat frequent chest:
* Offer her a seat on the bus
* Help her to smoke
* Help if you see that she has a bag or suitcase
* Bring your beautiful handkerchief when it starts to sneeze (but by no means a one-paper handkerchief, because she will not excuse you to return your handkerchief)
* Help to remove coats
* Give assistance when necessary to change a tire her car, or offer to take it to the service, and then get it somewhere.
This is not about to engage in such a situation, which then would be difficult to break, but just take the opportunity to show their gallantry and easily accessible for you gesture, which could become a wonderful beginning of a new love adventures.
ask for assistance
When are in a difficult position (as is often the case with men), ask for help from any girl or woman. This tactic courtship is nearly error-free.
Everyone knows that the supermarket is the ideal place to start flirting with any woman. When you are in the meat department, ask blonde, which eats with his own eyes, the recipe for meat or on how to bake chicken, which buy. You can be sure that you have any siren, which would be happy to help you choose beets, and an invitation to dinner, you can make the most natural way in the interval between the phrases on the theme of food.
The ability to do good work arouses in every woman instinct mother (except where this gesture could humiliate her). So if you see a woman in a store of books that you care about, do not forget that it may be pleased to take this opportunity to recommend to you acclaimed books.
Do not doubt that the neighbor, who lives with you on one staircase, the pleasure you will say in answer to your question about prices, hiring apartments in the house.
And this Venus on the beach would be happy to share a cold tea from the flask to replace what you tell her about the beach oil, which can protect from sunlight of a beautiful back. The same applies to sales of spirits, which is pleased to help you choose the toilet water, which is going to buy into her office. In both cases, you will learn a lot and tans and spirits.
Finally, do not seek help from those horrible, but only for girls.
style "aristocrat"
If you have a woman such treatment, which is worthy of the Queen, she will accept you as king. Style "aristocrat" does not imply a desire to impress the beauty, and is likely to suggest to what degree it produces the impression on you. Men can show their special sensitivity, imagination and tested the respect and admiration for her.
There is no need to give her an apartment or to vacation in the Mediterranean resort. No, it's trite, and every millionaire could do it. The original style "aristocrat" is a sign of elegance that turns a casual meeting in a burning fire idyll or hail-fellow relationship in the passionate experience. You can send a bouquet of roses to your colleague on the occasion of a happy event to go with his friend in the theater or cinema. Style "aristocrat" could create epistolary novel, starting with beautiful postcards with the wish of pleasant moments associated with a particular event. the same style can you suggest any opportunity to wait lady of your heart after working hours in a huge limousine.
an invitation to dinner in the style of "aristocrat"
Restaurants are those special places where you can discover their skills. One evening spent there can change the style of relations that supports women.
At the outset, then posh restaurant, even if it will cost you dearly. In this situation, the food itself was of secondary importance. Romantic atmosphere, beautiful tablecloths and napkins, subdued lighting and sophisticated services - this is what is important. See to it that the staff refers to your partner as this home with all fitting probation. best if the wine served with meals. If not dealt with in wine, take a look at the price, but do not choose either very expensive or very cheap wine. While most cheap champagne gives the evening a special connotation.
There is no need to underestimate the influence of wine on human nature. Recognized as a divine nectar, the drink of kings, warriors and Don Giovanni, the wine is so magical, calming drug, which entices young girls. Familiar psychiatrist described how one of his patients slept with her boyfriend only after he had her regale prestigious wine.
Money and style "aristocrat"
Style "aristocrat" leads us to think that money does not matter. Of course, this is not the case. No reasonable person can not endure long, sprinkle money. When live in the style of "aristocrat" You have to show that you care about it, revealing some of your main features. Once gallantry costs money, why would not allow a pleasant evening, but it may cost. Buy it flowers from the florist that pass by your table. Your partner is undoubtedly enjoy. Ask instead of the usual coffee coffee-Express. Finish dinner, ordering sweet liqueur. Raise toast to the most beautiful woman on earth, which sits in front of you. Aghast, and your charm, and wine, it is easier to yield to your courtship.
When the yield by not cry out loud if it seems too big to you, because this evening is not repeated every day. Keep smiling and accept account offhandedly.
However, never have to talk about money with a woman when you just started acquaintance. Why keep it appeared that this your last money. Felt uncomfortable because of your reaction, though take with the understanding it renounces such evenings.
Generous tips create the mood of the staff, which will apply to you with appropriate respect. By the end of the evening stay the same nice Chevalier. If you can not hold her, order her taxi driver let her and pay the money. The issue resolved with the driver, not with his friend. This additional gallant gesture gives her great pleasure and convince her that her pet and take care of it. She left the impression that you it had nothing to fear.
The ability to show attention to the lady always unlimited. Wear always with a handkerchief and matches and lighters, which go on the street, always adhered to its partner. Offer her hand when she fell from a car or bus. Suggest to her coat when she dresses.
When she met with you the night, bring her coffee in bed, then let her elegant peignoir and offer fruit juice in a crystal glass. Do not forget that there are always the usual and unusual way to do many things. Style "aristocrat" needed a man who wants in his life were exceptional woman.
And colleagues at work?
This Wednesday, in which the work remains the best source for romantic adventures. At work, people hold a very long time, and this is precisely the enabling environment, where relations with female colleagues may become permanent and waves. Women are everywhere. They are so good and so much that you can turn your head.
Salary is not the only reason, because women prefer to work and perform various tasks. The ability to be among colleagues helps them feel more personalities, they have created the most friendly relations. In any business there are at least a seductive woman, while others have their own character and intellect, while others are just ordinary officials in suit. Among these women are representatives of Bohemia and nature lovers.
Regardless of what work and what you age, they want to please you and raise your admiration. They have so many Ott this effort and energy that you need to be just gawk, not to overlook this and not take advantage of this.
Insistence is the key to success in the future idyll. Think about all those women that occur every day, day after day and months. Not preparing themselves for courtship, learn techniques that will help you seduce one that is most like you.
The atmosphere at work helps acquaintances and contacts between women and men whose interests coincide. In the life of any person, regardless of whether it is male or female, the work is very important.
There is nothing more natural than to talk to a female colleague and inviting her to a restaurant or bar. Common interests arising from all work together to create the conditions for frequent meetings and heightened desires, not going beyond certain boundaries. If, of course, you do not work in night bar, where the situation is fundamentally different in all other places sensuality is born, not to cross the border more or less pronounced flirtation.
But what can we say about sexuality, related to power and hierarchy of important positions. Where the atmosphere is full of ambition, secret competition and temptation. If you have an important post, then the problem of grooming is easier. Women are afraid men who have power, but at the same time, they like it was such a man. If you do not belong to the category of those men, then select the behavior, consistent with well-friendship, and this will help you easily keep in touch with girls and women in the workplace. In any case, work environment creates the conditions for idyll.
Closed for lunch
The operation itself lunchtime important than the fact that something must fill his stomach. How many romantic adventures occurred precisely during a lunch break. In such moments professional relationships are intertwined with romance pleasant meeting in private. When you say any of your colleagues: "Why do not we have lunch together?", For her, these words have the following meanings: "I want to take care of you." And when she responds affirmatively, saying "I agree", in essence, it tells you that "takes courtship."
It thus becomes the first joint luncheon beginning and the consecration of a future love connection. It is best if this is exquisite dinner. Not necessarily, that is what happened in expensive restaurants, but, of course, not a cheap eatery. Select a place where calm will help the relations established in the workplace (ie relations, to which you are accustomed to both), becoming a romantic relationship, which will start a new novel.
Since then, you should buy quite a different nature, which does not have anything to do with official relations. At this point in her life, she expects you to praise her beauty, charm, voice, walk, spirits, sexy much more than talk about qualifications. Remind her and himself, that from this moment it you will be more to it than just a colleague at work.
After understand that the dinner ended, though, alas, and very quickly, say something like: "Indeed I am very happy! We must continue this conversation. Do not mind if somewhere on Thursday night?".
If you want to invite more often, why not find other comfortable place, or propose, for example, go for a picnic.
charming colleague
When running a large company, you have the opportunity to meet many girls, and more frequent changes of personnel are increasing opportunities for your gains. Hurry to give attention to a new colleague, yet it failed to do someone else from your colleagues. Use specific tactics. Avoid traditional words like "Welcome. Do you like us?" Try to detain her mind think twice compliment. Ask her about the work, tell a few good words about her boss and colleagues. Walk with the throughout the building, show her where the main offices, cafes. Help her to understand some particular situation, fill out the required documents. All this is a proof of peer relations to it and help you become a friend. Meet with other colleagues. Inviting her to dinner with colleagues. In pleasant surroundings, she quickly learned all the subtleties in an environment of the workplace, starting with the fact that prefers the chief that he does not like, etc.
Tell her about the requirements team, in which it will work. This wave of sensitivity and attention on your part will certainly be brought together with you.
"activities" at work
When the Committee for the "events" are present at the dinner, which brought together all colleagues, their presence creates some tension, the situation becomes tight. These cases are usually not very favorable for new contacts and novels. In such circumstances, be more cautious. Not close to the woman that interest you, or do so very deliberately. If you talk to her only on the work, do so with dignity. If she answers you in the same style, inviting her to dinner in the coming days.
If you find that it does not interested in problems at work, can the next day invited to hold together a night off.
This type of relationship should be maintained and in the general activities related to holidays or, for example, the annual congresses. You'll notice that these events for some become a sort of fun, especially for those who will move to another job or who do little work.
Making of a Don Juan in front of all and whatever the circumstances are not helping career, although it may be tickle your health.
WHAT say experts
Rich or poor, young or old, handsome or homely, everyone is a mixture of confidence, skills, self, sincerity and may be fellow, very good.
You must, however, take into account that some occupations favors contacts with women. Many of you are working with the figure of contracts, or producing control orchestras summer slippers in the winter. But Jim rescue work, and always swarm around the most alluring women.
Why is Jim such a profession? Maybe because it likes to take care of women, or because of the chance. One God knows. What is important is that Jim wealth of experience. Here's what experts think that one should speak, to do and try to do to win the heart of a woman. I stress that none of the fellow is not beautiful, too rich or just lucky. What they know about this matter comes from the rich experience gained through and the mistakes and successes. They have the experience, with the monitoring and determination to please women.
Ken A. .. professional tennis player
Professional tennis coach in the famous tourist center in California on behalf of Ken taught this game so many beauties that you simply difficult to imagine this. Its students come from all over the world, from European capitals and the far west of Middle America. All of them love their teacher. Why? Here's how he explains it, Ken.
"The tennis courts are very easy to chum with women, because at a place they least expect courtship. My job is to surround their attention and show them what and how should I do if I want to learn to play tennis. As Teacher me slightly closer to a woman to lead her movements. For this purpose, any player can invite neighboring courtesy to assist start tennis player. This kind of men are beginning to care for women remains at the club before the break on the court. I know of one visitor who there 40 minutes before the start of the game, to have a conversation with a woman who he likes. This initiative gives him the opportunity to spend time in the company's most beautiful girls. Paul, another ardent visitor courts, for example, always with a few tennis balls By offering them girls, and explaining that their balls less than thumbs up for a good game. When they return it with gratitude the ball, inadvertently started a conversation in which he invited them to drink with him something ... and so on.
Many men are recorded on the court, not having their own partner. When you receive an interesting object, this type of fellow invited her to join him on pretext that his partner has not arrived. Although this number quite so old, most of the girls are the rules of the game. For them does not matter the type of courtship, the whole issue is that the man was sincere in his desire to meet with them. I would even tell you the champion in tennis, which, incidentally, very rarely can be seen at the court, because most of the time he spent with the girls who came to play tennis. after intensive games in the heat, any girl appreciate the invitation to drink cold lemonade.
Incidentally or not, but the source of water did not work in the park, which is help our fellow invite girls to drink with them at least normal lemonade. I think that the source did not work is not without the help of some of these Lovelace.
I advise men who want to get acquainted with the girls at the tennis courts, first learn to play well and wear suitable for this sport suit. Even if you do not become a champion, your quality of a good player to help you in the new conquests ladies' hearts ... "
Mike D. .. barman
Mike works in a bar in Manhattan, which has been highly successful. He understands and sees what's happening around him, he has a wonderful opportunity to observe how men caring for women. If the bars of big cities you drive and you want to be an experienced follower, listen to his words.
"I've seen almost everything there is to see, even the most incredible things. For example, a guy who creep under the table and gnawed hip women, and, oddly enough, some of them seem funny.
In any case, I think that ordinary people, well-meaning, are able to talk with strangers girl or woman who frequently reaches its goal. They like to chat with women who did so sincerely. Women like men who self-confidence, but they do not like shy, spineless men.
Bobby always forced to wear a cup to drink. I am as a barman was always a pleasure to fulfill such an order, and women usually love it. Even when they refuse such a gift, this gallant gesture in them a sense of curiosity and forces them to pay attention to cavaliers. Bobby is always interesting when the lady refuses to present cup. More often than not do more shy girl. Then, it uses its entire arsenal of good manners, all her experience to reassure her. Bobby will never give up trying, if a girl he liked.
I recall, and another type that kept very strange to each incomer girl. He watch and said: "I am quite two minutes to fall in love with you." Very often, this tactic helped him.
Another follower rise just before the girl who walked past him. she usually say "excuse me", trying to go past. And our hero answered, "No, no excuse." When the girl appeared on the face of surprise, he continued: "It can not contain not say a word, because you have such nice." This behavior is also likely to bear fruit, as would be naive to all this is not the look.
You saw that even help in these cases, because most young girls and women appear in the bar precisely in order to get a suitable man. That is why, if you have good manners, know how to pleasure, and if you talk a little more beautiful Quasimodo, you will succeed.
When I worked at a discotheque, I am always surprised by the fact that very often the girls refused to dance with a well-built and very nice guys. I will never forget the young man who, after he refused angrily asked her: "Why not, may be waiting Robert Redford?"
The girl first troubled, then smiled and after some time they came out of the room. So it was welcome, but too bold and direct, which helped overcome the obstacle. When you resist that kind, Your confidence shows a sincere interest in this girl, and she feels it immediately.
Being in a bar, careful approach to the girl that you response, and start talking to her. It does not matter what. Say what you want. Let you do not stop crafty comments girls. I often go confessor women. they all complain about shy men, they want to see them more bold and straightforward as they came in the bar did not notch math, and get acquainted with a man.
Once we have a conversation with Julia, a frequent visitor facilities, and she told me that: "I do not understand why so few men take care of me. In fact, when I sit at a table and drink a glass of wine, it is clear that I did not come to that . If this were so, I would be able to drink wine, not leaving the house. I come here to change the situation to shake up life by something small and innocent flirtation. I want to meet with a pleasant man, I do not need a brilliant and talkative partner. I'm interested in a man who wants knows what and how to do it. " Julia often lonely, regardless of what very well together. After some time alone, in general, very poor man, managed to attract her attention. Julia admired his aplomb, his self-confidence.
Because of what is often shared with me a man I knew only that every second man can win the heart of a woman, if it persists in taking care not first refusal. Just a woman must be given time to enable it to you to evaluate.
My experience suggests that the situation in bars helps courtship, even for the most interesting women. Find the bar, where many young girls without friends, and you will meet a lot of concern. "
Jake L. .. coach swimming
Jake, working on swimming coach, managed to get acquainted with the most beautiful nymph on the beach. He suggested that such tactics:
"First, tell me what you really like her tan. This will make of fun. But if it had not yet caught fire, Express compliments about her leotard.
As a coach for swimming, I write the names of those girls who use the service. I am generally interested in those that will be little time at sea because they are slow due to lack of time to test any romantic adventure. Especially quickly those whose location only a few days. Those who remain at sea longer looking for more serious adventures.
The most tested technology advances, it directly to the girl who lights up, but for some reason most young people are not doing so. Some types are flying skeet and seek to throw exactly where he is beauty. The idea is not bad. If, moreover, carry a cold beer or lemonade, she could easily agree to hold a few hours in your company.
Around the basin case a bit more complicated. There harder to care. We must be prudent, since you often have to deal with the same girls.
Compliments very suited to the atmosphere that prevails around the pool. If you are there with friends, organize a game of volleyball. This game is well suited to the beach. You can lie on a lounge near the group of girls and start talking with them. Ask not whether it prevents your lounge or something. These girls do not mind chat with you, because they are bored, if not in the air male attention.
Carry a portable radio. This will give you the opportunity to ask the girl nearby, whether it hinders it, whether she wants to listen to music. This is a very reduced distance. In addition, do not forget that almost all the girls love music.
In the swimming pool is very easy to be next to a girl that you like. Start with a compliment, which is best suited to it. "
We suggest that you take these tips experienced fellow who managed to infiltrate way into the psychology of girls and women. Try to always draw some conclusions, when your experience has been good or when failed.
A PERSISTENT - key to success
If you're not lucky in love-making at the outset, this does not mean that we should despair and run away in a monastery or go to the resentful mine before the end of his days.
Remember that usually the first experience always fail. Even the big fellow can not lead to immediate interest of a beauty during the first meeting.
But in some cases (for example, in a discotheque), we suggest you adopt such tactics: depart in the direction of a girl, which met and come to it later. Better to act so as to take the bull by the horns and act cocky and bungle. Indeed, it is to create a pleasant atmosphere between you.
To take care of the girls at work, where learn, for neighbors, have to have perseverance. In places where morale is high, you need to do careful not to discourage girls from the desire to get acquainted with you. If you can often see them, why hurry. Better Win their confidence gradually.
That confidence is needed, especially in big cities where most women and girls are in a state of constant defense. Reliance dispels the fear that you can abuse her credulity.
To learn to understand her, especially the need to respect, and then look for common tastes and interests. There is nothing pleasant conversation with a new friend twosome. Very pleased to gradually become acquainted with a girl, and it reminds the mutual recognition of a future wedding couples during the engagement. Regardless of the breadth of your character can always any beauty with a bad character, which may make a joint life hell. The more and more common, so your experience is richer.
iron is hot ...
Regardless of whether or not you have success or not yet, all attempts to help improve the technique flirting and make you more confident in myself.
If you refuse, do not do this tragedy. This must be seen as only a small obstacle on the path to success.
Remember the famous film "Rocky", which tells the story of hapless, naive boxer who drum imagine that any cost to become a world champion. He constantly thought about it, even when all his body was sick of strikes, and when his Friends encouraged to abandon. But the courage and perseverance have helped him in the end, to carry out his dream.
Of course, the results are not always consistent with the efforts that we are dedicated to achieving the goal. But the more you perseverance, the more chances you have success, especially when it comes to gaining the hearts of women.
the worst students in the class
I want to tell you about Charlze. The most booby at our college. Nobody, including girls, did not want to have anything to do with it, although it was neat, hail-fellow in tune to all student. So that Charles is very much thinking about girls. Especially he liked some Alison, in which he was madly in love. At the same time, keep in mind, girls do not sleep with boys, as is often the case in our days.O poor Charlze not be able to go and it is in this sense.
My brother thought he could help him, he began to persuade Charles to abandon the idea of fix-care for the beautiful and inaccessible Alison. Brother of vain but only lost time because he has stubbornly continued to care for her, even when it makes its derision in the eyes of others, or "underlay his pig."
Despite the sarcasm, not from Charles to pursue his beloved by sending her flowers and offering interesting meeting.
You probably already guessed the continuation of the story. After six or seven months beautiful Alison has not Truni over Charles. And a few months Charles has achieved its goal, and Alison has been to meet him.
In most cases, when the girl refuses to you in his care, it does not mean that she has no interest to you. Even when she agreed to meet with you at the last moment, she could abandon the meeting.
Being too shy or self-doubt, she wants to first know you closer. Or just want to make you suffer, as most women love to do it. Very few women are quick surrender. During a long flirtation, they constrain their desires.
They are waiting for a convenient time and suitable predisposing conditions for doing so.
Do not refuse if the first fails, the experience, because you open up possibilities for the next, more successful experiences.
she hates me, so what is this?
Let us remember our poor Charles and his courtship of Alison. When Alison talking about the causes, which she did not want to meet him, one of the key was that she thought it terrible. And he answered: "Well, what of it?".
When you refuse, remember two things about which we'll talk a little below:
first impressions unstable;
self-esteem is more important than any woman.
In other words, try to overcome resistance to women without losing their dignity.
The first impression of almost nothing. Do not hesitate to the fact that your charming coach Skiing is not happy your appearance. Maybe you have to remind her former husband psychopath? she does not like you're the kind of men. Well, what of it? What she knows about you, once you've just met?
You unpleasant to realize that you do not like her, but maybe over time it change the their attitude towards you, and during re-experience it may be more manageable, especially if able to control their sensitivity.
Ask if you know that your Friends failed at the first experience of caring for a woman who they like. Many of the women. if they ask, recognized that for the first time they did not have a strong attraction to her future partners.
In order to bloom the relationship between man and a woman, regardless of what they are - hail-fellow, gentle love or sexual attraction - takes time. and it has always been so and it will, regardless of what we show movies from Hollywood-cliche.
How can a person open at once during the first trip? But if after several attempts you set that this woman makes you feel nervous and unhappy, think about your happiness and forget about it "not taken" heart.
Do not forget the most basic - there are hundreds of women who can win, but you have to assume will be an indispensable, the only one.
Regardless of its beauty, if it is causing you pain, hurt you, then it unworthy of your tenderness. In light of beautiful and good woman who is pleased to make you happy.
constant perseverance
The woman of your dreams is another man, you are transferred to another job and you can no longer see it, the religious beliefs of her family hamper your relationship with your favorite - all these are real obstacles, it is sometimes difficult to overcome. But often the situation varies depending on the circumstances. The woman, in which you secretly love can to part with his friend, or simply change their attitude to life. Will the attitude of her family to you? Whether you are transferred to work in the same city where live your favorite? All this you have the right to dream.
Do not miss her sight. To treat it as its very good friend. Call her on the phone, congratulating her on his birthday, has consistently emphasized your attitude to it. And while you will meet with other girls, save in his heart for a corner.
Do not burn bridges, to be ready to be around it when circumstances change.
Persistence and perseverance leads to success. To win the hearts of women, these two quality needed even more than intelligence, education, charms, appearance and a chance together.
Discover friend you girlfriend
In many ways friendship from many far more noble and strong shades of feelings than idyll of sexual connection. When friendship between two people turns into love, their relationship is richer and remains strong for life.
All the more pity when two people are intimate life, not having deep respect for each other.
I think every man happened to take care of a man thinking about where the next morning turned into a sense of chagrin and regret. The problem is solved in two planes. We perceive her as something that troubled our holiday, or trying to understand why we lost.
I am not saying that any meeting should necessarily become a great love. These days even women have become more realistic. But today is important that the relationship with a woman must be gentle, intimate, relationship that enriches you and enriches the lives of concerns instant.
friendship enriches sex
Most women do not hide their desire to enrich the range of feelings in relations with a man. Follower, in turn, chose not to include tenderness in relationships with women.
This Don Juan is always needed in the presence of women around him, and he was convinced that every woman is a real pearl. This type of fancy casts the possibility of frustration, each of its relationship blossoms color. His favorite is responsible generous feelings, with admiration and friendship in the rotation.
adventures for one night?
Or maybe you the most important thing is to change women every night. If so, then you are too demanding. Most men prefer something more than a series of adventures, from which there is nothing. Do not think that it's not possible to find a partner with which to share their thoughts, that you care about, and share your lust. That is not true that this type of relationship occurs only once in their lives. Love, if it is simplistic to express, seeking to sexuality, but always linked to friendship. Love can not exist without it. It is born from friendship.
there is no need to be similar
There is no special significance in what look like your characters and your personality. it is not seeking to see your exact likeness of herself. So do not be afraid to be different views on things or interested in something that she was not interested! And without it clear that you will have much in common, once you lead each other. But it would not be acceptable, if not impossible to perceive things the same way.
It is not a pleasure to watch when one partner keeps himself as a sheep. This behavior shows the lack of strong will and a matter of contempt. Women do not approve of men without faith, they do not want you to look too harsh and do not want to watch as you want at any price available. Just open it before its essence. None of the women not only will take you from the fact that you are different from them.
Let it yourself
Inexperienced follower usually drive two types of calls: first a neutral style, impersonal, when is the weather or the intellectual climate in Czechoslovakia after the change of political climate. As a result of the conversation get boring and it does not reach love hobbies.
The second type of conversations over the offensive, unnoticed leading to the main idea, there are: "You are very tempting, I would like to hold a pleasure being with you." If this method is sometimes more successful than the first, it is only because the individual who uses them, has an exclusive feel. If you are shy people, this behavior if you do not come.
This technology advances, which is used follower and philanderer, does not contain anything close and provocative. It is a quiet conversation, as though talking with his friend or sister.
It does not matter whether it is familiar to you or not, you can even make a confession like: "I wanted to be cowboy" or "When something like climb the Everest." You can admit that sometimes cry in film or sincerely say that it is not love, such as literature and reading magazines just do not like classical music. Recognize that terribly fond of chocolate ice cream. Tell her that you love pajamas and often sit for hours in front of the TV. If you think that people who love to run, you seem to be abnormal, say it in plain English. No matter what your tastes and preferences, such as explicit recognition of her like more than simple compliments about her appearance or stump metaphysical analysis.
show themselves vulnerable
Women are afraid to love, and that it may discourage you if it recognizes your feelings, then make a big mistake. On the contrary, it made more nice when realizes that the only woman for you. Do not hesitate to tell her how she liked you since the first meeting and that you have never experienced such excitement. Such recognition reinforce the feeling of love is stronger than a thousand beyond intellectual discourse. taken together.
Women worry easily in the presence of male vulnerability, which itself has quite naturally. Jason is a director of one advertising agency. When he wants to enjoy a woman he does not hide its sensitivity. He won a lot of women, although he looks quite ordinary, and in general he shy person. "When I was 20 years old - he told me - I had to accompany a girl so beautiful that I feel despair, because he was sure she be bored; in my company. After dinner and conversation acquiescence in the film came time to bid farewell. Then I felt inexplicable excitement, but it looking at my eyes, complete tenderness, whisper: "You are all creeps raised more likely to top." finale was a wonderful night together. then every time find themselves in this situation, start to tremble as teammates ". That was a clear sign of sensitivity and vulnerability helped him win the hearts of the most fierce girls.
Of course, you can not always use the same tactic, but it should be noted that the sensitivity and tenderness in a man awakens in women motherly instinct. If she does not like to take responsibility, there is nothing terrible that from time to time recognized their fears and weaknesses. It establishes a balance between man and a woman and an opportunity to prove by their very nature, which in turn reinforces her feelings and tenderness to the partner.
Keep your independence
If you have a friend, she does not deem it obligatory to share with you every moment of his life. Another case paramour. Friendship gives you some freedom in their actions and deeds, while love more exigently.
Everyone should be able to have some moments where he wants to stay. These Friends recognize this basic right of every individual without any problems. Being a friend of women, does not necessarily mean that it should always be with you everywhere and always. To maintain friendship, you need to keep some distance, otherwise jealousy and a sense of ownership to intervene in your relationship. In any human relationship of mutual respect strengthens them and facilitate mutual understanding.
Close to the EAC
You must turn in this heartbreaker. This requires time and practice. It is not that women expect their dreams, which then will be in your bed, and that must have the patience and try to learn as possible with a lot of girls, because among them there is certainly one that sooner or later should be your favorite.
The more girls you are familiar, so comfortable, you start to feel them. As the belief in themselves is strengthened, you better be able acquaintance with girls.
Start with your nearest environment, gradually expanding territory. In one instant, you will be pleasantly surprised at how much you pleasant and romantic dating.
friend of your friend's sister
Remember those horrible little your sister, who lodged in the house of your parents and in their hair are pink spring stick to wave hair. So what, they have grown and evolved into these beauties. So why would you not see your sister? It will be very pleased to present his brother, his childhood friend, who turned ugly in magnificent white swans.
traditional family meeting
Do not miss opportunities to visit the family at the upcoming meeting. You'll find a cousin Rob, who in the past has not been able to stay long in the same work. But now he is the owner of the discotheque and director of the agency dummies. And some of this Don Juan, who is your son-in-law is always a host of beautiful girls. A aunt Eni has not eager to introduce you to at least a dozen tempting girls.
A lady-killer you always say that never have to miss this opportunity, regardless of whether it is a family tradition or something else.
and neighbor ...
Day after day you meet young women in the elevator when they go to work or returning from a walk from shops, etc. They are the goals of your loved ones.
The next time welcome a blonde elegant woman who lives in a nearby hallway, continuing to talk about what wallpaper suitable for your living room. Or why would you ask any overlay, you need to wonderful sauce for pasta? And then ask her to join you to drink a beer together.
If you want to get acquainted with a charming personality does not matter that you have to go further, several streets again, this may provide you with a charming company Sundays.
Laundry, located in your house or nearby, is also an excellent place to get acquainted with some charming girl next door. There is nothing more natural than to ask these young ladies how to avoid traces of powder on the jacket or to help it lay sleeping clothes.
In the category of those places where you can see the nice women are and living in the house of assembly. during such meetings usually creates a pleasant environment, more spontaneous reactions, but you need only to maintain a good tone.
Quarterly Meetings
Visit the various parties, exhibitions of antique things in the area, where live, gives you an opportunity to get acquainted with neighbors, who otherwise seem inaccessible. It is often people who want to expand their acquaintances. In such situations, the words "good day" enough to introduce. You can then begin a series of questions such as "you probably live nearby?". Speak to her on the street, which live on the neighbors, and all that comes to you in the head.
Let your questions related to her, will be the usual: "It has long been whether you live here? Do you like the area? Do you like a little cafe?, Do restaurants, which play jazz or other music?". When will understand what she wished her propose their company. This is a wonderful beginning of the relationship.
collective action
Very well, if you can join the collective action. This is a wonderful way to meet nice women. Go to team-work, participate in social activities to clean water, parks, the environment. Do not forget that such committees are composed almost entirely of women. You will get acquainted with many ladies because they are constantly engaged in the exchange of information, telephone calls, charitable activities, the sale of lottery tickets, etc. In this work, there is nothing strange, and your willingness to devote themselves to this effort will bring you a generous reward.
Hail-fellow relationship with neighbors and family friend facilitate the exchange of ideas, and depending on your desires can become a serious relationship. All the places to which we have just told you, make it possible for only a convenient excuse for a pleasant acquaintance.