Swing .... Something ... familiar. Yes, the name somewhere heard, but what it is - absolutely no concept. In the meantime, it is now fashionable word is called a pair of married, who welcomed the group sex with other family pairs. Edit wife in legal terms ... these thoughts probably attended even the most convinced "monogamy". But the consequences of those little prank could be second as deplorable. So what exactly swing can be a decent alternative to illegal campaign left.
But I think that is an expression of human sexuality - newfangled phenomenon will be at least a mistake. Several thousand years ago in ancient Rome were popular long orgy that the very brush aside contemporary swing-parties. Moreover, the tradition of sharing wives in some peoples North.
Age
The average age of women Swingers - 29 years, men - 32 years. There are some features - almost all couples, excluding duets from 21-30 years old, underestimate their age. And there is some explanation - Swingers routinely denied couples who are 10 years older.
Divorce?
Yes, no .... At the frequency of divorce group sex does not affect. Swingers divorce with the same frequency as ordinary families. For eighty percent free minded couples even has several children. Sometimes Swingers come between them in business, but the principal for them to be sex. Despite the apparent freedom of conduct amateur exchange partners still subject to strict ethical canons.
For example, Swingers-Orthodox are very angry if they will know that someone in their company came to the party with a prostitute. If that happens, there will be jeopardized fortress unions. They believe that in order to engage in group sex - you can just throw a party with a mass sex with friends.
How to tie acquaintance
At the preliminary stage of exploratory conversation is taking place. Themes can be very different from discussing other Swingers technology to compare sex and the reactions of other people.
Specific language
In his conversations and correspondence Swingers often use the term «starred couples» or «beautiful people». But knowledgeable people say that the popular treatment for not more than a way to choice a favorite. They give to understand: «We are above average. Neither the average couple can not meet our requirements ». However, this state often enjoy the organizers to attract the largest possible number of couples. In their invitations, they reported that about: «We write only selected couples». That phrase has already put the recipient to the wall - chosen something you want to be ....
What is the swing-party
They are «open» - when swing couple copulate in front of each other - and «closed» - when, after a joint dinner and a common program, couples retire.
Clear swing at first sight, removes most of adultery, because everything is happening before our eyes. In addition, the effect for the other pair could exacerbate feelings. However, not every man will be able to make a spectacle of its girlfriend to embrace another, even though he himself at this time is «scrutiny» of a sultry men. Another problem, many participants are beginning to compare themselves with others, and it does not give them any at the moment to relax.
Private swing eliminates many problems. However, lost sharpness group sex and understandable joy second role.
Venues for meetings may vary - from city apartments to country houses, but most are specialized swing clubs.
The atmosphere in every way contributes to emancipation guests. Typically, a certain hour, all those present should remain only in their underwear. Facilitating contacts serve as dances, erotic competitions and games. But after midnight, is «time of universal love». For this club all conditions: rooms for couples halls orgy and eyes in the walls for the voyeur. In general, fun people as they can. Tips for beginners. As the old Swingers, first you need to experience all the same to buy the club - so you can avoid unnecessary excesses. First time in swing-party better to go with his partner - is a kind of insurance from unplanned solitude (if none of the ladies did not inspire deeds). But there is another pre-subtlety need to make sure that the partner does not fall in a faint, or not throw a fit at the moment are not suitable ...
Among Swingers, a good half - voyeur. Therefore, if unpleasant kind of emphasis over the features of your anatomy and thoroughly understand the technology your sex, madly irritating - is privacy.
But as amusing contrivance? But once worth noting that in the West, where the proper fashion and went on the legal treason, classrooms psychiatrists from people, try sharing partners. It needs serious help. Many of them are not calculating their forces - jealous, falls in love with «exchange partner.