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Virtual sex requires no more than pressing a button on the computer and logging into the system ... with easy access and growing number of people who are happy sitting in front of their computers for some electronic fun.
But what does the virtual sexual revolution speak about the future of intimacy, relationships, communication and honesty?
Cyber-specialists reveal the perspective for those who seek sex in cyber-space.
Noah Gurza is one of the founders of the most famous student online dating site in Canada. Gurza study released on the Internet, which involved more than 2500 students from more than 150 universities and colleges in the country.
"It was mostly an opportunity to assess the views of students in the country for sex, their sex life, experience and aspirations," he says.
Gurza asked questions like: "How many times a week you have sex?", "Are you monogamous?" And - naturally - "Do you have virtual sex?

Surprising answer!!!
"We expected a large number of students to respond positively to the last question" says Gurza. "We assumed that will be around 50%. We knew this would be much, since the survey was anonymous and allows students to be honest"
However, assumptions are not even close to reality.
"87 percent was a surprising result for us, but this gives a good estimate of the generation - these young people, aged about 20 years, participated in the study are actually older online. The Internet affects many aspects of life - the elements of social communication and as a substitute, as far as the sexual dimension in their lives. "

E-mail, online chat, text messages on mobile phone, web camera ... - any-options for those looking for cyber-fun.
What does the new generation that is in pace with the "high-tech" love think about the real relationships? Maybe too old-fashioned? But intimacy and honesty? Probably too complicated ...
Furthermore, it is so easy. It is not necessary to be an expert to participate.
Internet is also a good opportunity for people who are not sexually attractive, because of their appearance, "said Luan Ueston, sexologist. "Now those people who have been neglected because of their appearance have the space to be sexually active in a non-discriminatory environment."
Ueston explains that single parents who do not have enough time or those who are widows and are now starting new contacts are another good example of who can benefit from virtual sex than students.
In some cases, this "sexual act" can stimulate communication between people. In other cases - no.
"There are cases where virtual sex help, encouraging people to share things that are the real worry in contact," says Ueston. "Another time, however, virtual sex away people who practice real partners, leading to secrets and lies. Unfortunately, although the first happens, the second occurs much more often. "

For those who are in the virtual world, cyber-sex can be an opportunity to open doors that have previously been locked.
"Just like any other form of human communication, sexual evolve," says Gurza. "By virtual sex people share their sexual desires quite freely, which may be a problem with sex in real time. Many virtual connections are real predecessor and openly shared in the beginning can lead to greater candor when sex is really happening - and this is good. "
Virtual sex is easily accessible, free (or at least very cheap), safe and may be alone at home as often as wanted person - morning, noon, evening. Does such a notion, however, as "too many virtual sex?

"Many people" practice "Internet sex," says Jen Berman psychic. "But for those who do it regularly or replace their intimate connection with the online sex, we talk for people who have problems with intimacy."
"When someone uses a remote method to obtain sexual intimacy with a stranger you will never see, in fact he does not receive real intimacy," says Berman. "And if this is done regularly, it becomes an obstacle to obtaining sexual and emotional intimacy in real life. Every time someone chooses the virtual to the real human sex company - for example, a friend calling out to dinner and you decline because you prefer to have sex on the Internet - already talking about a serious problem. "
Online cheating
And then, of course, the question arises, which is old as the internet - I cheating is virtual sex?
"When one spouse" go "on the Internet to get sex, it destroys the intimacy in marriage," says Berman.
And this destroys the concept of loyalty in man?
"Cheating, if it considers partner for cheating," says Berman. "It is difficult to give a precise definition of adultery, since it depends on the morals and principles of the family. But what matters is whether your partner considers these virtual "pohozhdeniya for cheating."
For some odd high-truancy is so neprostimo as in real life. For others, it probably can be skip.
"Every family sets it only for themselves," says Ueston. "Some would say that virtual sex is a sexual insult, others would argued that since no physical contact, it is only a fantasy and does not affect me."

Internet is clearly here - will remain, and it comes with a new sexual era.
"One can say that the sexual experience the technological revolution," says Gurza. "With each technological achievement, virtual sex evolves. Web camera, for example, set the virtual sex new level - in the not so distant past it was mainly "text."
As the technology and its penetration into our lives, we develop opportunities for virtual pleasure.
"Virtual sex can be great tool to deliver pleasure and a great prelude or supplement to the already mature sexual life," says Gurza. "And we hope that it will be mostly, and will not replace or adversely affect the natural human desire for real, feelings of sexual gratification."

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